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為了孩子們能安全度過青春期,作為家長,您在日常生活中面臨了哪些困擾?應該怎樣幫助孩子渡過呢?今天的文章,就分享一下。
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經過我學家庭教育11年多來,我接觸到的孩子很多,既有青春期的孩子,也有比較嚴重的孩子。青春期孩子逆反常見的原因有:不跟家長溝通、不尊重父母的價值觀、親子關系緊張、學業受挫等等。
我總結了一下,主要有以下兩點原因:
“孩子進入青春期后,隨著生理和心理的變化,他們心理上會發生一系列的變化,他們對于獨立的渴望會與家長的觀念有沖突,但是又不愿意讓家長過多參與。”
“這是孩子自我意識的發展過程,源于孩子的成長,他們試圖用這樣的方式來證明自己長大了。他們對事情可以自己做決定,但這是他們成長的需要。家長們經常是孩子不聽話的時候,你“要這樣,不要那樣”,他們會反駁你:“為什么你要那樣?我的手上的水你不去洗,要不我就不洗!”
以上這些話,相信每個家長都會對孩子說過。隨著孩子的不斷成長,他們會產生自我意識,家長給孩子貼上這樣的標簽,可能會引發孩子的叛逆。
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作者 | 湯米
編輯 | 墨菲
第一心理主筆團 | 一群喜歡仰望星空的年輕人
參考資料:Brbas, Scholl, S. G., & Bless, H. (2018). Beautiers mess effect: Self–other differences in efficacy of efficacy of efficacy and satisol of efficacy of efficacy and efficacy of efficacy of vitaministration of work and bad on a diagnosis and diagcs in adolescents with the preschool of the diagnosis of something that block; " " " " " " " " " " " " " "; " " " "
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